Narcissism: A Poem
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liberty5300
 November 29 2023
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    You’d like to get to know me

    But the effort that you’ve shown me

    Tells me, I’m only a tool it takes to fix

    The discomfort that you’re feeling,

    Might be something, with, you’re dealing

    It’s a shame I’m only worthy when I’m rich

    Why, just rich in wealth? Rich in wisdom, rich in health,

    There are many other riches worth our thanks

    Didn’t realize, lives like this, are beneath your sort of “Ritz,” 

    I’ve forgotten to uphold your social rank

    You say you’d like a mother figure,

    Not a friend, but something bigger,

    I treat you more adult than you’d prefer

    The discomfort that you’re feeling, 

    Might be something, with, you’re dealing 

    I’m convinced you’re finally starting to mature

    You’d like to get to know me

    But behaviors that you’ve shown me

    I have mirrored, with awkward scoots around barbed wire-

    As of lately, I’ve retreated 

    Now your purpose, it’s defeated-

    You pout when nothings left to fuel your fire

    You say you’d like a mother figure

    Not a friend, but something bigger

    You don’t know me, you complain, as if I’m cold

    I’m not dumb enough to up-

    Warm, cool water in your cup

    If the cup that I’m presenting’s

    Not of gold 

    I can’t be your mother figure,

    There’s no button, switch, or trigger

    I think friendship is a reasonable goal

    As you borrow, mine, that glows,

    Just remember, it’s for “show”

    That discomfort, with, you’re dealing, still won’t go

    Why, just glow in pride? Glow in spirit, glow in stride

    Do those candles, that you’re burning, fill the void? 

    When your own start to burn out, you take others, just for clout

    As we’re forced to do the work that you avoid

    Disclaimer: This is not directed at ANYONE, in fact, I was inspired by a few (older and younger acquaintances) to write this :)

    It’s a poem about proceeding to “use” people for what they have to offer-Pursuing a sort of superficial bond rather than aiming for a real friendship, intentional or not.

    (I hope this is 500 words, if it’s not I will update later!)

    Also: The narcissism I’m referring to in the title is not necessarily that of a personality disorder, I’m certain it’s more of  an “adolescent egocentrism,” in young and older acquaintances. 

     

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